Winning In the Dark

The biggest fight we’ll ever face is the one that starts in the mind. Overcoming our own fear and self-doubt is a critical step in achieving and maintaining any form of progression, growth, or attainment. It’s a principle that may seem too simple to be effective and thereby difficult for many to grasp, but the truth of the matter is that the mind is a powerful tool. 

There is not one goal, invention, development, or advancement that did not first start in the mind. However, the process from thought to realization is complicated and must be nurtured properly to reach completion. There are many great ideas and breakthroughs that died with their hosts because they were plagued by limiting beliefs and disempowering thoughts.  

So how do we do it? The first step to winning despite our environment and circumstances is to acknowledge that an opponent does exist. Stronger than any 10ft. tall giant is the opponent that’s been with us every day of our lives and knows every weakness we have. Recognizing that our mind, which is trying to protect us, can and has built walls and insecurities that limit our ability to soar and grow into the person needed to achieve our dreams. We cannot overcome a challenge we have no knowledge of. We must know we’re in a fight to win it. 

 Once we’ve surveyed the battlefield, the next step is obvious. We then have to seek out the right weapons and tools to secure the win. Remember, the mind is powerful, and it knows all of our weak spots. So we have to be smart and intentional about transforming from an environment of fear and “false” security to one of courage and empowerment. For some, that may look like creating positive rituals like prayer and meditation first thing in the morning and before bed, journaling, affirmations, etc. Many of us may have to pull out the heavy artillery and therapy  to safely and gently identify the links and origination of deeply ingrained insecurities and fears. It is hard work indeed, but what battle is ever easy? The outcome, however, is invaluable. You see, once you’ve conquered your own mind, your destiny will forever be in your control. You get to write the book of your story however you want. Unfortunately, you won’t believe or experience that until you get down and dirty with yourself and walk away with the win.

Turning on the light within our mind opens the door to all kinds of goodness. Putting in the work to get out of your own way is brutal, but the reward is indescribable. You’ll feel as if you’ve been walking around with blindfolds on your whole life, but now you’ll see clearly. Once free of the limitations of your mind, you’ll be at peace, move freely and think deeply. You’ll be better able to develop and apply strategy and consistent action to manifest your dreams. You’ll be in the driver’s seat of your life and able to create the reality you choose for yourself.